Recently, one Sunday afternoon, I was sitting at my house doing
nothing particularly productive. My mind
wandered to thoughts of a previous bishop I’d had. The memory inspired me and I decided to write
him a letter. So, I pulled out a pen and some paper, and in my barely legible
handwriting began to express my gratitude for all that this bishop had done for
me over the years.
This was the man
that had given me my first calling…a calling I felt astonishingly unqualified
for. He also took a chance when he gave me a key to the church for this
calling, which I only mention because at that point in my life, my parents had
deemed me not quite ready to have a key to their house due to the 4 previously
lost keys to their garage, their two misplaced truck keys, and a badly bent and
deformed shed key (which in my defense still worked if you jiggled it just
right). But the trust he showed in me boosted my confidence. This was a man who always gave freely and
generously to me whether it was going out to his ranch, inviting me to dinner
or just taking a few minutes to talk with me whenever I needed.
So I finished my letter to this bishop, who had invested so much
time, effort, and trust into a young and somewhat irresponsible kid. I
completed the next step and sent the letter, and then didn’t give it a second
thought.
A few weeks later that bishop showed up at my house. He had come by to express how much that
handwritten letter meant to him; we talked for a few more minutes then he gave
me a big hug and with all the sincerity in the world told me how much he loved
me which, coming from this man, meant the world to me!
I share this story only to illustrate and express the impact
that one man had, and can have on a young man trying to find his way in this
increasingly difficult and changing world.
Saint Johns is full of many good
men… my hope is that we all can find time to give direction, inspiration, and
hope like this bishop did for me. There
are many of this younger generation trying to find their place, and way in this
world. They need the generosity of good
men to help lead them in their journey.