One
of my favorite childhood memories is of baking sugar cookies with my mother. Oh,
the anticipation--watching the oven door of the old gas stove as delightful
smells filled the whole house, waiting anxiously for my mother to pronounce
them “done”.
My
brothers and I would sink our teeth into those hot, sweet disks and chase them
down with a nice, cold glass of milk. Back in those days, Dawn Heap delivered our
milk fresh from the dairy in quart bottles with a cardboard lid. As it sat, the
milk separated—cream on top, skim milk on the bottom, and, somewhere in the
middle, that elixir we called top milk. Exquisite!
One
Saturday morning I woke up wanting those sugar cookies. I was just learning to
read, and so I knew I could follow the recipe on the back of the baking soda
box myself. And wouldn’t the family be surprised to wake up to fresh-baked
cookies!
I
measured the sugar and shortening very carefully, just like Mom. Then the
directions read, “Cream the shortening and sugar together.” Cream. Hmmm. No, we
were out of cream. But I was sure that the top milk would work just as well. How
much? At least a cup, I would imagine.
Stir
though I might, my cookies just didn’t look like my mother’s, even when I added
extra flour. The bowl soon filled with a big, soupy slop. About that time, mom
got up and came in. Sobbing in humiliation, I tried to explain what happened. Mom
looked at the mess, flour and sugar spread everywhere and mystery goop in the
bowl. She smiled and said, “That looks pretty good for a first try, but why don’t
we feed this to the pigs? They especially like sweets, you know. Then we’ll try
this again.”
My
ego was rescued, the pigs got an extra something with their breakfast, and mom
and I made a whole new batch of cookies, carefully creaming together the sugar
and shortening.
I’ve
thought of that experience often, how easy it would have been for my mom to
snap. How convenient it would have been to put off the cookie baking (if we did
it at all) until after breakfast, and we had cleaned up the mess and the house
and all of the other chores we did on Saturday. Instead, Mom took that time,
right then, to be with me. I’ve never forgotten the warmth I felt as we worked
together, two women in the kitchen. It is still one of my fondest memories of
childhood.
What a wonderful memory! It's such a good reminder that building relationships is so much more important than our "to do" list.
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